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Penguin & Monkey Punch : The Pain That Teaches You to Choose Yourself

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The penguin and the monkey story are not really about animals. It is about the quiet pain many of us carry, the pain of walking away, and the pain of being left behind.

Sometimes, life places you at a crossroads where both choices hurt. You either leave, or you are the one left behind. Neither feels fair. Neither feels easy.

In one story, the penguin walks alone across endless white snow. Every step is cold. Every step is silent. It once belonged somewhere, stood beside others, shared warmth. But now it walks alone. Not because it wanted loneliness, but because staying would have meant losing itself. Walking away is never easy. It means choosing peace over attachment, even when your heart still cares. Just like Lord Rama, who left his palace and everything familiar, not because he was weak, but because his path demanded strength. His exile looked like loss, but it became the journey that revealed his purpose. Sometimes, walking away is not the end of love. It is the beginning of self-respect.

 

 

 

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In the other story, the baby monkey sleeps holding a soft toy, as if trying to replace a warmth it once knew. It did not choose to be alone. It did not choose to be left. This is a different kind of pain, the pain of abandonment. The questions remain without answers. The silence feels heavier than words. But pain has its own purpose. Lord Krishna himself faced danger, separation, and loss from the moment he was born. Yet those very hardships shaped his wisdom and strength. Being left behind does not mean you are unworthy. Sometimes it means your path is being redirected toward something your present self cannot yet understand.

Both stories carry the same truth. One teaches the courage to leave. The other teaches the strength to survive being left.

And both teach the hardest lesson of all to choose yourself.

Because in the end, loneliness is not sent to destroy you. It comes to rebuild you. What feels like an ending is often the quiet beginning of becoming someone stronger, wiser, and more whole than before.