For 46-year-old Singaporean Suresh Vanaz, Thaipusam is not just a festival, it is a sacred journey of love and devotion. Every year, as thousands of devotees bear kavadis to Batu Caves, Suresh carries something even more precious; his younger brother, Gunaseelan, who has cerebral palsy.

“This is my devotion, caring for him and ensuring his happiness. That is my offering,” Suresh shared with NST.

To him, the journey is not about the weight of a kavadi but the unwavering love and duty he holds for his brother. Thaipusam, he believes, allows Gunaseelan to be part of something greater—to feel the energy, the faith, and the unity of a community that welcomes him with open arms.


Although they had planned to visit Batu Caves this year, logistical challenges led them to celebrate in Singapore instead. Yet, this does not deter Suresh’s dedication to fulfilling his brother’s dreams.

“Gunaseelan wants to see the world; Phuket, Europe, and many other places. Recently, I took him to India for 11 days. It tested my endurance as I had to carry him the entire trip. By the time we returned, I was completely exhausted, but seeing his happiness made everything worth it.”

Suresh is determined to break societal perceptions and ensure that Gunaseelan lives without limits. “People used to look down on children like my brother, but I just want him to experience life like anyone else,” he said.

As the sole provider, Suresh carries not just the physical weight of his brother but the responsibility of giving him the best life possible. In a world where obstacles often define limits, Suresh Vanaz proves that love knows none.

Source / Image Credit : NST