Before you savour those scrumptious mutton curries and murukkus, let’s make sure you know the ins and outs of this beautiful celebration. But first, let’s ensure you’re well-prepared with some etiquette tips.
1. So… when are you getting married?
Deepavali is a time to celebrate togetherness, not to pressure someone about their wedding plans. Let them enjoy their murukku in peace without feeling annoyed.
2. When are you having kids?
The festival is about joy and family bonding, not forcing people to talk about something so personal. Enjoy the laddu, not other people’s private choices.
3. What’s your salary?
Asking about income during a festive visit can make someone feel judged. Deepavali gatherings should feel like open houses, not office meetings.
4. How were your exam results?
Children and students look forward to new clothes, firecrackers, and sweets. Don’t ruin their happiness by turning it into a results announcement.
5. When are you buying a house or car?
Festivals are meant to comfort hearts, not add stress. With the rising cost of living, this question feels more like a burden than a blessing.
6. Why did you gain/lose weight?
Everyone is enjoying traditional food like murukku and athirasam. Don’t spoil the festive dinner by making someone feel uncomfortable about their body.
7. See your cousin/relative… why can’t you be like them?
Deepavali is about celebrating each person’s light. Comparing one relative to another only creates upset, not harmony.
8. Why are you still in that job/course?
The festival season should lift people’s spirits, not bring them down. Be supportive instead of questioning their path in life.
9.Still single?
Deepavali is about family love and celebration, not about making someone feel bad for not having a partner.
10. Why you never help in the kitchen / house?
Instead of pointing fingers, invite them to join the fun of cooking or serving. Deepavali is about sharing duties with a smile, not insulting someone.
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