We were beyond schocked to receive the news of music maestro AR Rahman and his wife, Saira Banu, deciding to part ways after nearly three decades of marriage journey. Yesterday, Saira issued a statement, revealing that the separation was due to “emotional strain and challenges” that had become “insurmountable” over time.

In the wake of this DIVORCE announcement, Rahman has taken to his official account to share the news.

An old interview with Rahman has resurfaced, shedding light on the dynamics of his married life and family adjustments. In the interview with Rahmaniac.com, Rahman reflected on the early years of their marriage, noting the challenges of blending their different cultural backgrounds.

“You know, it’s always difficult for any family to adjust to anyone new coming into the fold,” Rahman shared. “Like all mothers, my mother was possessive about me, and as we all lived together as a joint family, a period of adjustment was necessary. In 1995, my eldest daughter Khatija was born, and everything was fine after that.”

Rahman also spoke candidly about his temperament and interactions with his team and family. “I’ve lost my temper with my team at home and the studio. I act as if I’m angry so the job gets done, don’t show this to my guys,” he joked. However, when it came to his family, he clarified that his anger was usually just a display. “My children are sensitive and know when I’m upset. That’s very important. I only have to show my irritation; that’s all I need to do.”

He further shared his preference for solitude and the strong support network he has built over the years, comprising close friends and collaborators from his teams in India and London. “I’m not crazy about being mobbed. I prefer some quiet time and being alone,” Rahman said.

The official statement on behalf of Saira Banu was issued by celebrity lawyer Vandana Shah. In the statetement, they have stated that the couple announced their decision to part ways after nearly 29 years of marriage. They cited “significant emotional strain” and “tensions and difficulties” as the primary reasons for their separation. They described these challenges as having created an “insurmountable gap” that neither felt capable of bridging, despite their deep affection for one another.


Saira Banu expressed that the decision was made with "pain and agony," requesting privacy as they navigate this challenging phase. Their marriage, arranged by Rahman’s mother, has been a significant part of the composer’s life story. At the time of their union, Rahman was deeply focused on his career and had entrusted his mother to find a partner who could complement his life and work.

Throughout the years, their relationship remained private, with the couple seldom discussing their personal lives in public. Despite their discreet nature, their bond was widely perceived as strong by fans and observers alike.

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The couple, who tied the knot on March 12, 1995, in Chennai, are parents to three children. While the details of their separation remain private, the announcement marks the end of their nearly 29-year-long journey together. As fans come to terms with this news, instead of trolling their personal decision, let's give them the space and time to heal. We might not agree with it, but we have no right to paint their canvas with our opinions and judgments.

Source / Image Credit : Alexis17, Times of India, India.Com