For the past few days, bullying and cyberbullying have emerged as significant issues in Malaysia, impacting children and teenagers alike. There’s no denying that the digital age has brought with it new challenges, and the question arises:
Are parents to blame for the behaviour of bullies? And how crucial is good parenting in combating cyberbullying?
The Role of Parents in Shaping Children Behaviour
Parents are the primary influencers of their children's behaviour. From a young age, children observe and mimic their parents, absorbing their values, attitudes, and behaviours. This influence extends to how they interact with others. Good parenting involves teaching empathy, respect, and appropriate social behaviour, which are essential in preventing bullying.
We have a very unique cultural factors that influence parenting styles. Respect for elders, the emphasis on education, and strong community ties are integral aspects of our daily norm. These elements can positively shape a child's behaviour, but they can also present challenges. For instance, strict parenting or high academic pressure can sometimes lead to stress and frustration in children, which may manifest as bullying behaviour.
Parental Responsibility in Addressing Bullying and Cyberbullying
Should parents be held accountable if their child is a bully?
This is a complex issue. While parents play a significant role in shaping their children’s behaviour, other factors such as peer influence and individual personality also come into play. However, parents can mitigate the risk of their child becoming a bully by being vigilant and proactive in their parenting.
Good Parenting Important in Digital World. Why is that so?
Good parenting is crucial in combating cyberbullying. It involves more than just setting rules; it encompasses fostering a positive environment where children feel valued and understood. Positive parenting practices include:
- Setting Boundaries: Clear rules about acceptable behaviour, both online and offline, help children understand the limits of their actions.
- Being a role model : A must by demonstrating respectful and empathetic behaviour sets a standard for children to follow.
- Active engagement with the children: Being involved in children’s lives, including their online activities, helps parents stay informed and intervene when necessary.
Cyberbullying and bullying can be prevented when parents are implementing this in children’s daily life:
1. Monitor online activities: Well, it has to be on the first in this section. Keep an eye on children's internet usage and be aware of their online interactions.
2. Encourage to have positive social Interactions: Promote healthy friendships and the importance of respecting others' perspectives and feelings.
While it may be overly simplistic to place all the blame for bullying on parents, there is no doubt that good parenting plays a crucial role in preventing and addressing both bullying and cyberbullying. By fostering open communication, setting clear boundaries, and being actively involved in their children’s lives, parents can make a significant difference. It’s an effort, and with the support of schools and the community, we can create a safer and more empathetic environment for our children.
If you know of a child facing bullying, do not hesitate to report it at your nearest police station or via the MOE official website.
Accessible at (https://www.moe.gov.my/aduanbuli), the platform allows members of the public, parents, and guardians to lodge complaints about bullying incidents directly with the MOE.
Reports can be submitted through three channels – a special hotline at 03-8884 9352, email at [[email protected]], or via the MOE Public Complaint Management System (SISPA).
Website : Portal Aduan Buli - Aduan Buli , MOE.GOV